Dear family and friends,
We met in a lecture hall at UNN, arguing about whether jollof should ever have bay leaves. Nine years later, we still disagree about that, but about nothing that matters. We would love you to be there as we begin forever.
Ada & Tobi
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Our story
Two students laughing in a library
2017
The argument
A shared table in the faculty library, one very strong opinion about jollof rice, and a friendship that started over a borrowed pen.
Couple at a bus park
2021
Long distance
Tobi moved to Lagos for work, Ada stayed in Enugu for her masters. A thousand voice notes and too many night buses.
Proposal on a beach at sunset
2025
The question
At sunset on the beach in Zanzibar, Tobi forgot every word of his speech. Ada said yes anyway.
Two days, three moments
The celebrations
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Friday
11 December 2026
Traditional wedding
Igba nkwu
Starting 12:00 noon (WAT)
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Saturday
12 December 2026
White wedding
Holy Matrimony
Starting 10:00 am (WAT)
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Saturday
12 December 2026
Reception
Dinner and dancing
Starting 2:00 pm (WAT)
The Glasshouse
22 Ozumba Mbadiwe Avenue, Victoria Island, Lagos
Formal. Dancing shoes encouraged.
Directions
Map: Chapel of Grace and The Glasshouse, Lagos
Getting around Lagos
- The chapel to the reception is about 15 minutes by car on a Saturday morning.
- A shuttle leaves the chapel at 1:15 pm for guests without cars.
- Flying in? Murtala Muhammed Airport is 45 minutes from Victoria Island.
What to wear
Aso-ebi
We would love to see the families in their colours. Orders close on 1 November. Message Chiamaka Obi · +234 812 555 0199Copied on WhatsApp.
Order aso-ebi-
Emerald and gold
Bride's family
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Wine and champagne
Groom's family
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Dusty rose
Friends of the couple
Travel
Where to stay
We have held rooms at a few places close to the venues. Mention our names when you book.
Hotel exterior
The Kestrel Suites, Victoria Island
10 minutes to the reception
Code ADATOBI for 15% off
Hotel exterior
Harbour View Apartments, Ikoyi
5 minutes to the chapel
Two-bedroom apartments for families
Hotel exterior
Lakeside Hotel, Enugu
For the traditional wedding
Airport pickup available
Gifts
Your presence is the gift. If you would like to bless us further as we set up our first home, you can send a gift in naira, pounds, dollars or euros.
See our registry
Watch from anywhere
Livestream
For family in London, Houston and everywhere in between. The ceremony streams right here.
Saturday 12 December 2026
Starting 9:45 am (WAT)
Photo booth
Scan, snap, share
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No booth. No queue.
On the night, scan the code on your table and your photos go straight onto the wall. Best dressed gets a prize. Kemi is judging.
88 messages so far
Memory wall
Leave a message, a photo, a voice note or a video for Ada & Tobi.
Ada, I held you on the day you were born and I'll hold this day in my heart forever. Tobi, you have married a woman of peace. Look after her.
AN
Aunty Ngozi
Bride's aunt
My brother making his entrance. Agbada pressed, cap on straight, and I have never seen him this nervous.
FA
Femi Adeyemi
Groom's brother
Thank you for every prayer, every dance and every plate of jollof. We are reading every single one of these.
A&
From the hosts
Ada & Tobi
The couple
1:24
A prayer in Yoruba for the new couple
GA
Grandma Adeyemi
Grandmother
From passing notes in class to watching you say "I do". I love you, my sister. Tobi, welcome to the madness.
CO
Chiamaka O.
Best friend since JSS1
0:48
Our dance for the couple (we practised, we promise)
TN
The Nwankwo cousins
Family
Good to know
We love your little ones, but the reception is adults only. Children are very welcome at the church.
Yes, limited parking inside and more at the Ikoyi Club car park, a two-minute walk away.
Message Chiamaka on WhatsApp. Orders close on 1 November.
Please do. Leave one on our memory wall any time, before or after the day.
kindly respond
Will you celebrate with us?
Please reply by 14 November 2026
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